If I was a landlord, would I lick my housekeeper and fuck her without a condom? I think no, I would fuck her hard enough in the front and in the anus, and periodically I would call her into my office for gentle and unhurried blowjobs! And gentle fucking and licking? You have to admit it's too much!
It's not just porn in my opinion, it's a beautiful rite of passage that could very well turn anyone on. Personally, I'm already fully prepared.